My nine- and ten-year-olds have become more curious about sex, babies, relationships, consent, menstrual cycles, and a long list of topics I thought I would have had more time to address. This curiosity started a few years earlier, but I would always dance around the subject, revealing my discomfort. I was making it weird; that confused them, so they kept coming back with even more questions. So, now that they are hitting puberty, I decided I would tell them the truth.
This is so important because I feel like this is something parents should let their kids know more information about since it’s something they’ll have to come to terms with. I know they have health class in high school, but they tend to leave a lot of information out related to these topics.
I agree, and the sooner we address it, the better. Because our children will hear about it anyway, the best source is from us their parents.
I’m so glad you said be truthful. I have a parent who does not her around the truth when it comes to serious issues either.
Sometimes parents feel a little uncomfortable discussing certain issues, and I understand that. But the truth always wins; the truth can be sugar-coated to make the delivery easier.
In my opinion, “before” puberty is too young to discuss these topics; however, each parent is certainly capable of deciding when the right time is.
I understand, and I agree that each parent can decide when it’s the right time. My nine and ten-year-old are mature, and based on the constant questions they were asking, I felt it was time.
These are wonderful tips and they are all must do’s for sure to ensure your kids are informed. I also made sure to have the talk with my daughter when she was old enough to be sketchy of anyone that is too touchy feely…. if you know what I mean and to be aware of her surroundings as their are way to many weirdo’s out there….
Thank you. Lots of weirdos, and definitely be aware of the touchy feelies.
It is important o cover these with our children before they reach puberty. I’ve discussed them with my girls. My son is too young at the moment.
My 4-year-olds are way too young as well, but it was time for the 9 and 10-year-old. I was surprised by how well they received the information.
This is such a great and informative post! I truly wish my parents had talked to me more about sex, consent, and healthy vs. unhealthy relationships. But this will only make me that much better of a momma one day! Glad we talk about it all so openly now.
Talking about sex is the best way. It can be a little uncomfortable, but it’s necessary.